Being a Christian doesn’t mean you won’t have trials and tribulations, in fact the bible promised that in this world that we would have them! Nor as Christians will we feel happy all of the time.  Just know that when we are in moments of despair–God is present!  We do not want to make decisions on our own during difficult times.  We need to lean on God and rely on sources of strength to help us heal or deal with the situation at hand.  The sources available to us are prayer, Christian fellowship, and time in God’s Word.  (John 16:33)