Sometimes we would rather follow our feelings rather than be obedient to what God is leading us to do. For example, forgiving someone who has disappointed you. However, when you obey God and do not succumb to your feelings, He will empower you to overcome the pain of your disappointment and He will give you the power to forgive the person who hurt you. But you must be obedient.
Bless and show kindness to those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. (Luke 6:28)