Get Your Tribe Together!

Urban dictionary states that a tribe is a group of friends who have been together for a decade or a day, but are loyal, loving, honest and fun-loving.  I would like to add people who you can be transparent with, without judgement.  In this life, you need God and a good support system to help you navigate through its’ journey.  Both will provide directions when you are lost and will help get you back on course.  I am very grateful to have my tribe,  it’s like iron sharpening iron when we connect.  Do you have a tribe, if so how do you find it helpful?

Don’t Give Up!

No matter what, don’t stop following your dreams, and seeking the best version of yourself.  Continue to learn, grow and evolve as a person.  Don’t just live a life of mere existence filled with depression, sadness or fear.  When these emotions knock on your door of life, be still and allow your faith in God and the promises of His Word– answer.

But Don’t Give Up!

Life’s Journey

As we travel on life’s journey, we will make some wrong turns, u-turns and we will get lost along the way.  And that’s okay! We should count them all as lessons and experiences to make us better and to help us learn more about ourselves and life.  Everything that happens in our life is there to teach us. Are you listening and watching the signs in your life? Each of us should listen to the small, stilled voice that gives us directions, ideas and provide answers to questions that we are seeking within.  Then we should take the next best step toward our goals and our dreams. When you don’t know what to, I submit to you to consider meditating on Proverbs 3:4-6 and trust the process.

Being Fully Present

I read recently that mindfulness is the psychological process of bringing one’s attention to experiences occurring in the present moment (Wikipedia) and in my opinion mindfulness simply means being fully present in the moment.  Most of us are challenged living in the moment because we were taught that multi-tasking is the way to go.  I am committed to live more mindfully because I realize that I have wasted a lot of time, which is a valuable asset.  You see once the time has come and gone you can’t it back!  I have lost keys, cell phones, I have gotten distracted while conversing with friends and loved ones, and misplaced my wallet or purse more times that I would like to count! all due to not being fully present.

So the next time you are at a movie, worship service, engaged in a conversation or out to lunch or dinner with a friend, please think about putting your cell phone away and certainly no texting while driving.  Life is too short, so give each moment your full undivided attention and  I promise you that you will create beautiful, lasting memories. You will be blessed, as well as you will be a blessing to others.



Dealing With Grief During the Holidays

During the holidays we tend to focus on buying gifts for family and friends as well as make plans to spend time with them.  What I invite you to consider is that there are many who experience a sadness around the holidays due to loss of family and friends due to death, divorce, or separation and we want to keep them in our prayers.  Some people may have even experienced loss of employment or one of their four legged family members. Whatever the case may be, I pray that our eyes are opened and we are sensitive and supportive to those around us.  I challenge each of us to be a light in this dark world and show love to those in need

In case you are interested each Thursday evening from Thanksgiving to New Year’s Eve –Style By Britt’s Facebook Page is offering support by hosting interviews with people who have experienced loss and the interviewees share their stories of how they cope with grief during the holidays.  Check it out and be encouraged.

Take Time to Reflect On Your Blessings

Thanksgiving, is a holiday that it celebrated by many people of different faiths.  It is a season where most of us are on one accord; which is demonstrated by showing love, gratitude and kindness to one another.  This may also be a good time to reflect on your blessings. It doesn’t matter whether your blessings are large (new job, house, or car) or small (running water, electricity, ability to move on your own).  Earlier this year I created a blessing jar; and what I do is write down unexpected blessings ( a good conversation with a friend, a surprise visitor. or gift) that I am grateful for–it doesn’t matter if I am the giver or the receiver.  My intention is to take time to reflect on by blessings by setting aside time to read them one by one at the end of this year or the beginning of 2018.

My question to you is how do you give thanks for your blessings? How do you reflect on God’s goodness?